I’m just back from running a Negotiations workshop in New York, and once again I am brim full of ideas of what works well and not so well when in a Negotiation. The fact that I captured everything on video this time and have been reviewing these today prompted me to Blog on the benefits of slowing things down when negotiating. My experience of working with recruiters is that they tend to go at most things full tilt, and this can lead to missed opportunities and more of an arm wrestle than it need be.
One of the people on my course last week was a very direct, to the point, “in a hurry” sort of sales guy, and he was negotiating with me over advertising rates. We had a fairly strenuous arm wrestle for about 10 minutes and he walked away having left all sorts of longer term options on the table and missed the opportunity for a long term relationship.
Then one of his colleagues demonstrated a very different approach: Read the rest of this entry »











